June 3, 2013

#$%^%$#(*&^%&!!!!!

This morning I have a meeting at 10AM with Montgomery County school officials about a potential afterschool table tennis program. I was going to get up early to do the Tip of the Week and my blog. However, after a major run-in with the tenant downstairs, I was pretty much up all night, too irritated to sleep, and woke up this morning with a major headache.

I own a three-floor townhouse, and live on the third floor, renting out the first two floors. The 56-year-old person I rent to (who has a full-time job) believes that if he can't pay the rent I shouldn't question it. After much hassling, I was able yesterday to get $400 of the $1080 that was due a week ago, but with no promise on when or if he'd pay the rest, and he seems to think I should be happy that he paid that much. He believes that if he doesn't pay the rent on time, that I should assume he can't pay and I shouldn't ask for it. He's been late month after month, only paying after I hassle him for it, which he says is "condescending." As I belatedly discovered, he's got a credit rating about as low as is mathematically possible (quick pat on the head to myself: I have essentially a perfect credit rating. Yay me!), is a slob (I should take pictures), and keeps me up late at night with regular screaming fights with his 24-year-old son, who also lives downstairs. Recently they got so loud the neighbors called the police at 2:30 AM on a weeknight. I plan to give him one-month's notice soon.

So no blog today or Tip today; I'll restart tomorrow. 

ugh, sorry to hear about your tenant problems larry.  i also own a townhouse rental, in fairfax county virginia (although my family and i do not live there).  and have had very good luck with tenants, who we find on craigslist...but you gotta ALWAYS do a background check!  we use #1 background checks, as i have found them to offer the best services at the lowest price.  it costs like $40 to do a complete criminal/credit/rental background check, and they email you the results in less than 24 hours.  i just make prospective tenants pay a $50 application fee, and that covers the cost of the check, as well as my time for getting/processing all the info.  i have had perfectly normal-looking/sounding people who have terrible credit ratings, evictions, and dangerous criminal histories, so you cannot trust your "instincts".

hope all these problems get resolved, and you can get back to enjoying table tennis and writing...  :)

Hi Doug, yes, I'm slapping myself silly for not doing a background check. I've had very good luck with all past tenants, and the new tenant turned out to have gone to the same high school I went to, three years ahead of me - we knew the same teachers, the pricipal, etc., and so I rented to him on the spot. It's only recently that I did the background check, and discovered his credit rating, as well as a series of other "interactions" he and his son have had in civil and criminal courts. Thanks for supplying the link to #1 background checks - I might use them. (Hopefully it wasn't noticeable, but during last night's junior session I was pretty much on edge over all this, but trying not to let it show.) 

In reply to by Larry Hodges

lol, if someone went to my high school around the same time i did, i would automatically distrust that person!  ;)

nah, didn't notice anything in juniors training yesterday...you were cool as a cucumber.